connection.
For them, it’s uncomfortable.
They don’t feel comfortable speaking ill of someone who can’t defend themselves. They change the subject. They remain silent. They even defend the absent person.
And that makes the group uncomfortable.
Not because they think they’re superior, but because they have a different ethical code. If they don’t have something nice to say, they prefer to say nothing.
The result is predictable: they stop being invited to certain places.
They maintain their values… but lose popularity.
3. They are highly selective.
They don’t open up
